Retirement Transition Plan: Three Ways to Clear the Decks for
Retirement
There's so much to think about when planning for
retirement -- what you want to do, where you want to live, how to stay
healthy, and how to cope with the changes that are bound to come your
way. It's easy to go into overwhelm. You wouldn't think of building a
beautiful, new house on a pile of rubble, so why hang on to the debris
that will keep you from living the life you're meant to be living?
Sometimes, in your eagerness to move on to the next thing, you might not
realize there's a pile of rubble in the way. Before you begin to create
your future, take some time to:
1. Make peace with the past. You may think the past is past,
but most likely it's holding you back from what you really want.
Releasing the power the past has over you is crucial to achieving the
kind of freedom you yearn for in this next stage of life. Forgiveness
is the key. Before you run screaming from the room, hear me out.
When I left my career as a television and special event producer behind,
I was carrying a lot of anger at how I had been treated in my last
position. I was making great money, had high visibility, and was really
good at what I was doing. I had a wonderful relationship with my boss,
until that final year when I became the scapegoat du jour. Every year I
worked there, someone was the scapegoat. I never dreamed it could be
me.
The abuse that came my way was truly crazy-making -- no rhyme or
reason. It just came out of nowhere over and over and over again, until
I realized that I was a grown woman at choice about how I would be
treated, and where I would share my gifts. I moved on; the anger came
with me.
After bumping my head against the proverbial brick wall several times, I
decided to deal with the past. It wasn't easy, but over time I was able
to get a 30,000 foot view of the situation. While my boss's behavior
was inexcusable, I could see that this powerful, brilliant man was
riddled with insecurities. I was also able to see the incredible
opportunity he had given me -- to do work that I love with people I love
working with. Once I let go of my anger, I could move into the life I
really wanted.
2. Perfect the present. In the coaching world, there's a
saying, "the present is perfect, even when it's not." Like forgiveness,
this isn't an easy concept to grasp, but once you do, life gets so much
easier.
My client, Doreen, was working in sales for a major financial
institution, and was consistently producing in the bottom half of her
division. She blamed the company, and was so vocal in her discontent,
her boss would turn and run the other way when she saw Doreen coming.
With coaching, she realized if she left for another job, she'd still be
the same person. Staying put for awhile gave her the opportunity to
work on shifting her perspective, explore what was next while still
getting a hefty paycheck, and try on some new ways of being. She made a
game of changing her attitude, and within six months was #3 in sales.
Her boss even began to come to her for advice on ways the company could
improve.
Doreen recently left the company to start an online business. She's
excited about the future, and knows her new attitude, and ability to see
the opportunity in every situation will be invaluable in growing her
business.
3. Re-orient your life around your gifts. I'll bet like many of
us, you've spent a lot of years doing work that you're good at, but it
doesn't fully use your gifts -- those skills, abilities, passions that
light you up from the inside out.
JoJo had a successful career in publishing, wanted to move on, but
wanted to do it differently this time. She wanted to figure out what
she really wanted to be doing and pursue that, rather than pursuing a
career just for the sake of making money. With coaching, she began to
explore her desire to paint. She set up a small easel, canvas and
paints in a corner of her office and committed to painting just 15
minutes every day.
JoJo was surprised to discover that while she loved painting, she also
loved making money to be able to take care of herself, as well as
entertaining friends and family in her home. Before long, JoJo bought a
lovely B&B in need of some TLC, painted every room a rich warm color,
filled it with art (hers and others), and opened it to guests year
round. That was five years ago, and JoJo loves her new life.
By taking stock of where you've been, where you are right now, and who
you are at your core, you'll ready yourself for the retirement you
really want.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Certified Retirement
Coach Lin Schreiber, author of the popular The ABC's of Revolutionizing
Retirement, helps self-reliant women reinvent themselves in the next
stage of life, formerly known as "retirement." To claim your copy of her
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