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The Empowerment of Change
by Lin Schreiber, Retirement
Coach
You
might not like change, but like it or not, everything changes all the time.
There's the kind of change you choose, like retiring from your current work
life to pursue the encore career of your dreams. There's also the kind that's
thrust upon you that you would never choose for yourself, like being downsized
from work that you love.
What's important, in either case, is how you make the journey from where you
were to where you choose to be. You can dig in your heels and resist change,
or open to the opportunities that change offers. You can look frantically to
others for what to do next, or you can trust your own inner knowing. You can
throw yourself a pity party, or alter your attitude.
Choose wisely and you’ll discover you have the courage to not only survive,
but to actually thrive as you move through your transition.
Jean Shula is an expert on navigating change. She left teaching behind when
her youngest child started school, getting a Master's degree and becoming a
therapist -- her choice. Getting a divorce just as her three kids were
emptying the nest was not her choice. It was on a year-long, post-divorce trip
around the US in a camper by herself (her choice) that the idea of writing for
a living first sparked.
Once back at home, Jean worked as a therapist for three years before retiring
-- again, her choice. A year in Austria and a second Master's degree followed,
and finally she jumped into writing full-time, an encore career that she chose
whole heartedly.
In the middle of writing her first book, The Coming of Aging: Learning to
Live from the Inside Out, Jean was diagnosed with breast cancer. Derailed?
Definitely! But here's the thing. Jean didn't waste time battling against the
fact of her disease, or blaming or feeling sorry for herself. She took care of
business.
One surgery turned into three. Then there was the post-surgery protocol. Then
the months of getting her energy and stamina back. Sure, Jean researched her
options and got all the information she needed to make a well-informed choice
about how to proceed. But, she trusted her instincts and made good decisions
for herself.
While the book was on hold, she never lost her excitement about the project or
her hope for the future. She saw this derailment as an opportunity to take
better care of herself physically, and as a wake-up call to stay focused on
the things in life that are most important to her.
Jean uses change to fuel her forward in life. Today, five years after her
diagnosis, The Coming of Aging is published, her second book is being
shopped to publishers, and a third book is in the works. This dream encore
writing career also includes traveling around the country speaking and leading
workshops and retreats, and Jean's having the time of her life.
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Encore Career Coach Lin Schreiber, author of the popular ABC's of
Revolutionizing Retirement, helps self-reliant women reinvent themselves
in the next stage of life, formerly known as "retirement," by designing a new
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If
you love film even half as much as I do, and you haven't seen Avatar yet, I
highly recommend it. But, you simply must see it on the big screen in 3-D.
I'm not a fan of sci-fi or fantasy films, and I hate violence of any kind on the
screen (especially of the exploding head variety), but I believe Avatar will
ultimately change forever how we experience films.
Unlike the 3-D films of your childhood, you won't have to duck, because nothing
comes flying off the screen at you, and gone are the cheesy cardboard glasses.
But the technology allows you to enter the magical world of the planet Pandora,
and it's truly captivating. Yes, the film is violent at times, but the depth and
beauty of the spiritual story is so stunning that I honestly didn't mind the
violence. Of course, I am famous for keeping my eyes closed. Let me know what
you think!
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