
Finding the Opportunity When in Crisis
by Lin Schreiber, Retirement
Coach
Of course retirement is scary.
Whether you’ve chosen to retire -- or been forced to -- you still find
yourself facing the great unknown. The current economy makes it even
scarier.
At the same time you have an amazing opportunity. Do you realize you
have a blank canvas on which to create the rest of your life -- even if
you have to continue working? Instead of focusing on the scary parts,
what if you began focusing on the possibilities?
This is your chance to get it right, but you’ll need to give yourself
permission to discover what’s in your heart, and uncover what you
really want to do.
Claire had spent her entire life taking care of everyone around her,
and over the years had lost touch with herself. When she was given 12
months notice that she would be “retired” from her job after 17 years
of service, she didn’t waste one minute being angry or upset. Claire
realized that her forced “retirement” was a blessing in disguise, and
it gave her the time she needed to explore what might be next for her.
As we worked together, she started stretching outside her comfort zone
by doing some fun things she’d always wanted to do like taking
motorcycle lessons and her first vacation by herself. As her
confidence began to build, she discovered her entrepreneurial spirit,
and three months before she left her job, she launched her own
business -- a concierge relocation business that incorporates what
she’s always done with what she most loves to do.
What if, unlike Claire,
you’re “retired” with no notice? What if you’re pushed out before
you’ve had a chance to figure out what’s next? Don’t panic.
Remember Darlene from my the last issue of LWTBO, and how instead of
leaping into any job, she took some time to recharge? Then, within a
couple of weeks she had four job interviews, two job offers, and took
one of them? Well, what I didn’t tell you is that while she was
recharging she discovered that she, too, wanted to start her own
business. She decided to turn her love of quilting into a business,
but felt that she “wasn’t quite ready” and “needed to start making
money again” once she had taken some time off.
After a few months in the new job, though, Darlene saw clearly that
she really wanted to work for herself, so she left the job, and
committed herself full-time to launching her business -- an online
quilt fabric store. She’s about to go live with her dream, and she’s
happier than she’s been in years.
You, too, may discover you want to be your own boss. Or, you may
realize you love what you do, but want to transform how and where
you’re doing it. Or perhaps you’ll uncover a long-buried dream, and
make it come true. The only way you’ll know is to take some time to
find out.
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Coach Lin Schreiber, author of The ABC's of Revolutionizing
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